Somehow, the holidays are already here. Whatever you celebrate, if anything, maybe it snuck up on you too and now you’re scrambling to think of what to buy. Well, I’m here to give you a few helpful hints for the friends and loved ones you still need to buy for who might be interested in BDSM.
Of course, what you buy is rather dependent on how well you know the person you’re buying a kinky gift for. If it’s your partner, then finding the perfect gift should be pretty easy. If there’s something you’ve been talking about trying or something your partner has been hinting at, then listen! Go out and buy the handcuffs, plugs, or magic wand you’ve been thinking about.
Things get tricky when you’re buying for someone who you know you want to get a kinky gift for but aren’t exactly sure how to do it. Maybe someone you know is interesting in testing the waters and you want to help them make that final step and actual purchase something to get them on their way. Maybe someone you know went through a breakup and you want to make sure they have a quality item to keep them company at night. In these situations, as impersonal as it may seem, a gift card to a sex toy shop might be the best way to go (if you’re not lucky enough to have a great shop near you, online stores also work!) That way you don’t push them into a certain item and give them the chance to choose what fits best for them.
Now, I know you probably don’t want to get everyone in your life a kinky gift. Well, you might want to, but you know you probably shouldn’t. If you have the chance though, go for it. Whatever you get, whether it’s for your partner or someone else, at least you’ll know you got a gift that will likely make dealing with holiday stress a little bit easier.